Now I see RobV's frustration with your retorts. Of course their bad choices are strictly based on choice, and those choices can be influenced by societal and other effects. But there are those who feel the same effects and don't make the same decisions.JRod wrote:Then if their "bad choices" aren't solely a result of choice, your whole argument goes up in smoke. It's not really a choice, if it's an environmental influence, is it?
Bottom line: It's their choice. Society and other influences may affect that choice, but they ultimately have to make it.
Jesus, John, has there never been a time in your life that you were out with friends at a bar or a party and you were driving, and they said, "Hey, man, have another beer." You were tempted, but you realized that wasn't a good idea since you were close to the legal limit and were driving, so you said, "No, man, I have to drive." Or did you succumb to the societal influence EVERY time and pound down another draft?
And let's say that you did that and were pulled over and charged with DUI. Who's fault would that be? Yours, or your buddies who urged you to stay for one more beer?
And I guess it's never the student's fault when they do poorly in school, right? Every one of those kids is so damn eager to learn, wants to attend MIT, wants nothing to do with the gang culture, has two, loving, nurturing parents who want them to graduate from high school and college, etc.?JRod wrote:If they go to school, as mandated by states up to a certain age. In school they don't do well. They see no future, and with bad grades don't go to college or pass high school. And we are asking kids to see the world in this light, not mature adults but children then teenagers.
It's the school's fault. Or the teachers' fault. My neighbor taught in one of the worst schools in the inner city of Syracuse for 30 years. A friend of mine teaches in the same area now. He said it's amazing how many kids have ZERO desire to be in school, have no desire to learn, have no interest in the power that higher education can bring them. All they want is to reach 16 and leave for the streets.
But it's never the kid's fault. It's always someone else's fault. OK.
Take care,
PK
