Poll: Single or Married?

XXXIV · Post by **XXXIV** » Wed Dec 22, 2004 9:20 pm

I am single with a live in slave?

Programmed2Kill · Post by **Programmed2Kill** » Wed Dec 22, 2004 10:11 pm

I honestly don't know......

fletcher21 · Post by **fletcher21** » Wed Dec 22, 2004 11:08 pm

lol
mike let me give you some advice on women, that i gave to droog (i like you both and even tho i am not a gq esque type guy i can still get some pretty down bitches)

-don't ever date a girl who lets you in her pants the first time you meet her... these are booty calls

- don't ever buy a girl tampons, no matter what, or you will be downgraded to b*tch status and a mockery to all of her friends and yours
- girls are suckers for a compliment even if you are obviously lying thru your teeth
- when a girl says do i look fat, just say no even if she looks like she is 400 pounds, it saves a lot of physical abuse (i have a scar to prove it if you think admitting to a girl she looks fat is a good idea)
- paying money to take a girl out to eat, when you know you're gonna get some ass out of it, is basically like hiring a hooker... you are paying for ass, plain and simple lol
- hot girls always have hot friends, but don't ever try to get with them because you will end up losing both of them in the end, trust me
- wear cologne, this is so important... right now the ones i get most compliments for are acqua di gio (all time #1 for tru pimps LoL), issey miyake, abercrombie fierce, and rl romance for men

i hope that helps mike cuz i wanna see you have some fun in school and getting girls is a lot of fun, but don't let girls use you for money... so many of my female friends cheat on their bf but stay with them cuz the dude is whipped and buys them eveyrthing... make a girl put in her share too don't just be a b*tch and open your wallet when she wants to buy pair number 100 of shoes at the mall

ps how are ur ribs or whatever doing bro ? haha

fletcher21 · Post by **fletcher21** » Wed Dec 22, 2004 11:20 pm

oh and by the way i am single

i had a gf for 4 1/2 years but i decided i cheated on her too much, and every single person she was close to all despised me and i was sick of having to be like a dirty little secret so i told her that we were both young and to go have fun... well she got a new man a week later and is engaged to him now, after being with him 5 months.... funny s*** haha

marriage is not a necessity anymore now that women can survive on their own and don't NEED a man to provide for them, plus like they say "you can't turn a ho into a house wife", and believe me when i say this, there is a ho inside every female, and if you haven't seen that side of your woman i am sure some other guy has or will, sometime down the line

FloridaGators · Post by **FloridaGators** » Wed Dec 22, 2004 11:44 pm

Haha, thanks for the advice. I'm just out to have a good time each night I go out with my friends. I used to get worried about girls, but no more.

My ribs are doing fine, I can play all kinds of sports again, they definitely must have been bruised. I feel a tiny bit of pain but definitely feel it going away.

fletcher21 · Post by **fletcher21** » Wed Dec 22, 2004 11:48 pm

good man mike, good to hear

i was watching some s*** on the news tonite, and it said something like 2/3 of divorces are attributed to internet and cheating, that's insane

bdoughty · Post by **bdoughty** » Wed Dec 22, 2004 11:51 pm

Fletch for a second there I had you confused with Dr Laura. Powerful insight into the world of dating and women.

- don't ever buy a girl tampons, no matter what, or you will be downgraded to b*tch status and a mockery to all of her friends and yours

Well not as a gift but I hope that is assumed.

Dude if you are ever lucky enough to find a good woman that will handle and wash your nasty crudded up fruit of the looms, purchasing tampons for your mate is not asking alot from her end. Just don't stand in front of the aisle asking other women which one they recommend and if they would try them on for you. That would be in poor taste.

Kazuya · Post by **Kazuya** » Wed Dec 22, 2004 11:54 pm

fletcher21 wrote:marriage is not a necessity anymore now that women can survive on their own and don't NEED a man to provide for them, plus like they say "you can't turn a ho into a house wife", and believe me when i say this, there is a ho inside every female, and if you haven't seen that side of your woman i am sure some other guy has or will, sometime down the line

I actually agree with the basic concept of this.. I'm not quite as down on marriage as you are but I do feel it has changed in its place in society over the years. Really, the only real reason I am going to get married is because I want to have kids, and my mom would keel over and die if I had kids and didn't get married. I will try to find a good woman and give it a shot, but I am skeptical it will work. Not because it would be anyone's fault or anything, but just because of the way the world is.

fletcher21 · Post by **fletcher21** » Wed Dec 22, 2004 11:56 pm

fruit of the looms are bad news mang

boxers or nothing... whitie tighties are sick and girls find them nasty....

about the tampons, i meant just a girl you like or whatever... the other day this chick who i was going to go hook up with asked me to stop and buy her some tampons, coke, and some bread... i brought the coke and bread but no tampons and she was not pleased but i am not trying to buy some tampons that i have no clue about nor do i want to have a clue about

bdoughty · Post by **bdoughty** » Thu Dec 23, 2004 12:02 am

fletcher21 wrote:fruit of the looms are bad news mang

boxers or nothing... whitie tighties are sick and girls find them nasty....

about the tampons, i meant just a girl you like or whatever... the other day this chick who i was going to go hook up with asked me to stop and buy her some tampons, coke, and some bread... i brought the coke and bread but no tampons and she was not pleased but i am not trying to buy some tampons that i have no clue about nor do i want to have a clue about

You mock the whitie tighties? Boxers are cool and all but I have a package that demands support. We all come in different shapes in sizes. As for girls finding them nasty and upon meeting you ask you to purchase tampons..... I think we might have a little different taste in the opposite sex.

Cincinnati_Kid · Post by **Cincinnati_Kid** » Thu Dec 23, 2004 12:39 am

im 36 and not married

christine (32) and i have been together for 10 years now we first dated each other during the 1995 nba finals orlando vs houston and have been by each other side ever since she is as much my best friend in life as she is everything else and believe me she is everything to me.....she is everything i had ever looked for and i never saw it coming funny enough i was dating her best friend and never showed a bit of interest in her when we first met.......in fact she knew several of the girls i had previously seen....during my promiscuious drinking days....which by the way i havent had a drink since we first dated.....never felt the need to...and she gives me hell about all the airheads i dated back then any chance she gets...LOL

she is brash
self confident
insanely smart
a major tom boy a heart
loves sports especially football ,hockey and basketball
and has the most sweetly innocent loving soul

the bonus to meeting her was my wonderful son who has brought so many bright moments into my life i couldnt begin to explain

bradley is almost 12 his biological father basically abandoned him after the first year or 2

bdoughty · Post by **bdoughty** » Thu Dec 23, 2004 12:52 am

I can safely say that Cincy has the ultimate partner (not a knock to the other married couples). I remember we were playing NFL 2K3 (I think) a few years ago and while we are playing she was watching all the NFL games on TV. Tracking all the games and injuries for the fantasy leagues they were in.

Every few minutes I could hear her in the background giving him status report. It was sureal, I have never in my life been so jealous of someone I have never met in person.

the bonus to meeting her was my wonderful son who has brought so many bright moments into my life i couldnt begin to explain

bradley is almost 12 his biological father basically abandoned him after the first year or 2

I think to have you as a father Bradley is pretty lucky himself.

LAking · Post by **LAking** » Thu Dec 23, 2004 12:57 am

Late to this thread but you know what they say...
Anyway, I'm 23 (24 in Jan.) and i'm not married and very happy about it. I'm about to end a two year relationship with a girl that i care about and have a good amount in common with but couldn't picture myself being with her for the rest of my life. She's transfering to a new university about 4 hours away so we're calling it quits. She thinks we might get back together in a couple years but I know it's not gonna happen. Ever been with someone who was so sensitive (and you cared about) that you were scared to dump them because of what it might do to them? I have a history of ending up with girls with serious issues from their childhoods that still linger in their psyche.
I don't know if i'll ever get married. I may settle with "the right girl" but I don't know what to think about the whole marriage institution. I am a bit anti-establishment so the importance of making a relationship "official" is something i question a lot. Who knows, if i find someone i love more than anything, i may just make it official, but we'll see. As for kids, that's something else i'm not sure i want either. I'd be just as happy if not more so with a house full of pets than a kid. The way i see it, this world is over crouded as it is. By me having a child that's just one more person for other people's children to compete with for college, jobs, and whatever else in the future. If i do ever have kids i would really want to be very financially secure in order to ensure a good education and the best opportunities i can provide for my child. I'm not your average person as you can probably tell.

dbdynsty25 · Post by **dbdynsty25** » Thu Dec 23, 2004 1:02 am

bdoughty wrote:Every few minutes I could hear her in the background giving him status report. It was sureal, I have never in my life been so jealous of someone I have never met in person.

That's funny...my girl does the same thing.

Kazuya · Post by **Kazuya** » Thu Dec 23, 2004 1:21 am

Cincinnati_Kid wrote:im 36 and not married

christine (32) and i have been together for 10 years now we first dated each other during the 1995 nba finals orlando vs houston and have been by each other side ever since she is as much my best friend in life as she is everything else and believe me she is everything to me.....she is everything i had ever looked for and i never saw it coming funny enough i was dating her best friend and never showed a bit of interest in her when we first met.......in fact she knew several of the girls i had previously seen....during my promiscuious drinking days....which by the way i havent had a drink since we first dated.....never felt the need to...and she gives me hell about all the airheads i dated back then any chance she gets...LOL

Damn, your girl is pretty cool. I am actually pretty attracted to a long time friend but I have boinked a couple of her friends and I think it would be kinda wacky to try to be in a relationship with her. Especially when I used to call her and tell her all about so and so.

kicko · Post by **kicko** » Thu Dec 23, 2004 6:28 pm

dbdynsty25 wrote:Single...but living with the girl I will eventually marry.

It's cool...I don't see anything changing when it's official. Almost three years into the relationship...the only thing I could hope for is more sex. LOL...

then don't get marries cuz it won't happen more often.

Sully · Post by **Sully** » Thu Dec 23, 2004 6:45 pm

I'm 25 years old and married with two sons.

My wife and I married when we were both 23 years old, we had dated since our soph. year in high school. We have a 14 month old son (Christopher Jr.), and a 3 week old son (Brandon).

fatheadX · Post by **fatheadX** » Thu Dec 23, 2004 6:49 pm

I've been married for 13 years, and we've been together for almost 20 years (met in high school). We have two sons (8 and 5), and I am totally happy with the married life. It has it's ups and downs, no question, but I wouldn't change a thing. I'm not so sure she would say the same thing...

dbdynsty25 · Post by **dbdynsty25** » Thu Dec 23, 2004 7:07 pm

kicko wrote:
dbdynsty25 wrote:Single...but living with the girl I will eventually marry.

It's cool...I don't see anything changing when it's official. Almost three years into the relationship...the only thing I could hope for is more sex. LOL...
then don't get marries cuz it won't happen more often.

You can always WISH for more...it doesn't always, or rarely, happens...I understand that.

davet010 · Post by **davet010** » Thu Dec 23, 2004 7:13 pm

single, but with the same girl for 6 years.

Unless my excuses really don't work (see my post re HoI 2, below)

Jackdog · Post by **Jackdog** » Thu Dec 23, 2004 7:57 pm

Cincinnati_Kid wrote:im 36 and not married

christine (32) and i have been together for 10 years now we first dated each other during the 1995 nba finals orlando vs houston and have been by each other side ever since she is as much my best friend in life as she is everything else and believe me she is everything to me.....she is everything i had ever looked for and i never saw it coming funny enough i was dating her best friend and never showed a bit of interest in her when we first met.......in fact she knew several of the girls i had previously seen....during my promiscuious drinking days....which by the way i havent had a drink since we first dated.....never felt the need to...and she gives me hell about all the airheads i dated back then any chance she gets...LOL

she is brash
self confident
insanely smart
a major tom boy a heart
loves sports especially football ,hockey and basketball
and has the most sweetly innocent loving soul

the bonus to meeting her was my wonderful son who has brought so many bright moments into my life i couldnt begin to explain

bradley is almost 12 his biological father basically abandoned him after the first year or 2

Cincy my friend,you are married. You have found your soulmate. Way to man up and give Bradley the love and support he needs with a father. You the man bro.

F#cking Bucknut!

Jimmydeicide · Post by **Jimmydeicide** » Thu Dec 23, 2004 11:45 pm

JackB1 wrote:let me clarify.........I don't prefer my "single" days to my married ones. I enjoy the company of a woman. I just wonder if I married the "right" one or if I rushed into it because I am getting up there in age? I guess I was expecting her to stay exactly the "same girl I married" forever, but that was probably naive thinking.

No you did, they all get Fat and stop sucking c--k its normal

BasketballJones · Post by **BasketballJones** » Sat Dec 25, 2004 3:20 am

Jack that's the funniest question I've ever heard. I dated the wife all through college before we broke up for 6 months. Dated again for another and we've been married 19 years. If you find you can't live with or without her then that's the right one. She can be your best friend and worst enemy, often within the course of an hour. Marriages are like yo-yos but once the string breaks the yo-yo never comes back up. Too many people quit without taking into consideration that marriage is a commitment to a life partnership and thus requires a lot of work such as patience, communication, compromise, compliments, etc. Think about why you love her and work on the positive qualityies. Don't think the wives don't ask themselves the same question.

The longer you are married the funnier the question becomes. You may also ask other funny questions such as: Why did we have kids?, Why do we take family vacations?, Why do we go shopping? They are all the same question. Yes, us vets ask ourselves that question quite frequently and that's why we are still married. Congratulations on being normal. If you find that the relationship is violent then it is time to get out because that isn't normal.

Merry Christmas and good luck!

Post by **ScoopBrady** » Sat Dec 25, 2004 4:34 am

LAking wrote:As for kids, that's something else i'm not sure i want either. I'd be just as happy if not more so with a house full of pets than a kid. The way i see it, this world is over crouded as it is. By me having a child that's just one more person for other people's children to compete with for college, jobs, and whatever else in the future. If i do ever have kids i would really want to be very financially secure in order to ensure a good education and the best opportunities i can provide for my child. I'm not your average person as you can probably tell.

I can't describe how cool it is to have a child. The only thing I can say is that I can't imagine not having one now. Being a father truly is the best thing a man can achieve and in my mind the true meaning of life. Your still young yet Kings so it is natural to have the feelings about marriage and children that you do but I expect that will soon change as you get a little older.

brendanrfoley · Post by **brendanrfoley** » Sat Dec 25, 2004 10:04 am

sportdan30 wrote:Then I remember the times that she takes the kids to Chicago to visit the in-laws. Woohoo, free weekend! I love sleeping in, going to the gym when I want, ordering in a pizza and watching the ballgame without fighting over the remote. However, by Sunday the house is just too damn quiet. I'm ready for the laughs and craziness that comes when all of us are together.

Amen to free weekends. I love spending time/living with my fiance, but sometimes it's nice to get a weekend 'off.' She's touring grad schools during January, and I don't have time off from work -- it means lot of me time (which probably includes a few pizzas and playoff football). I'll miss her greatly -- but it will be nice to watch eight hours of football Sunday without having to take out the trash.

I've been with my girlfriend for six years, and we're getting married in a year and a half. We met when we were freshman in college, and we didn't want to get married until we were both done with college and grad school.

We've lived together for three years, and it's been awesome. And, it's really true that you marry into your spouses family. Her's is crazy, but mine is no picnic either.

She also puts up with my crap, which isn't easy to ask of somebody.