OT: A personal message

RobVarak · Post by **RobVarak** » Mon Jan 31, 2005 1:32 am

Guys,

I apologize for my absence around here lately, as I've missed a few league games etc.

Unfortunately on Friday, my wife and I lost our 4-month old daughter, Molly Elizabeth, most likely to SIDS.

As you can imagine, this tragic event has turned our lives and the lives of our friends and family upside down. I would really appreciate you fellas keeping me and my family in your thoughts and prayers, because despite being "virtual" in nature, I do feel that I have some genuine friends around these parts. And those thoughts and prayers sure would come in handy about now.

I'm sure I'll be back talking games and playing online eventually. Maybe even sooner than you'd think, as turning toward a "mindless" diversion like videogames could be theraputic pretty soon. But for the time being, I'll be elsewhere with a heavy heart.

Bill, please replace me in the leagues and tourneys, as I obviously can't be assured of keeping those committments at this point. I apologize to Jared and anyone else who'd been trying to get a hold of me lately. I wish I could've gotten back to you sooner.

Keep a place warm for me at Poker Night, guys. I'll be back as soon as I'm able. And all of you who are parents, please kiss each of your kids goodnight one extra time tonight, ok?

Take care guys,

Rob

snate · Post by **snate** » Mon Jan 31, 2005 1:50 am

Rob,

You are a genuine friend. I wish you strength in this most difficult time. My thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family.

Steve

webdanzer · Post by **webdanzer** » Mon Jan 31, 2005 2:00 am

Rob,

I wish your family strength and peace during this difficult and terrible time. You and yours will be in my thoughts, and tears, and you have my greatest sympathy.

Derek

Granatofan · Post by **Granatofan** » Mon Jan 31, 2005 2:11 am

I hope you and your wife can comfort each other through this and God comforts you both. Deepest sympathy.

Ted

dbdynsty25 · Post by **dbdynsty25** » Mon Jan 31, 2005 2:34 am

Damn Rob, I'm so sorry man. I'll keep you and your family in my thoughts. Take care buddy...

Post by **Jared** » Mon Jan 31, 2005 3:45 am

Rob,

You're in all of our thoughts and prayers. Stay strong friend. If you need anything, let us know and we'll do our best.

GROGtheNailer · Post by **GROGtheNailer** » Mon Jan 31, 2005 3:49 am

Our thoughts are with you Rob, we are so sorry to hear this tragic news. I can't imagine what you and your wife must be going through.

- Tom

F308GTB · Post by **F308GTB** » Mon Jan 31, 2005 5:43 am

I'm truly sorry for what happened. I don't have kids but have lost pets and been shelled by that. That can only pale in comparison to what you and your family is going through. My deepest sympathies. It shatters my heart knowing such an innocent life was taken like that. Can't blame you one bit for skipping the gaming for now and concentrating on your wife. I imagine she's really taking it hard and she'll really appreciate it.

James

laurenskye · Post by **laurenskye** » Mon Jan 31, 2005 7:39 am

Deepest sympathies bud.

kevinpars · Post by **kevinpars** » Mon Jan 31, 2005 8:54 am

You're in my thoughts. Take care.

Kevin

AcemanPR · Post by **AcemanPR** » Mon Jan 31, 2005 9:06 am

My deepest sympathies to you as well Rob. Could not even fathom what your thoughts are right now. God bless and take care of yourselves.

mixdj1 · Post by **mixdj1** » Mon Jan 31, 2005 9:07 am

You're in our thoughts and prayers.

mixdj1

Sully · Post by **Sully** » Mon Jan 31, 2005 9:21 am

My family's thoughts and prayers are with you and yours at this time, Rob. Be strong, if there's anything you need, don't be afraid to ask. We're here for you.

XXXIV · Post by **XXXIV** » Mon Jan 31, 2005 9:26 am

I am so very sorry to hear about your loss.

My thoughts are with you and yours.

James_E · Post by **James_E** » Mon Jan 31, 2005 9:29 am

Oh my. This made me cry. I am so sorry to hear that. I hope that hearing from us on this msg board helps a little bit.

I'm definitely thinking of you and yours.

Neckthai · Post by **Neckthai** » Mon Jan 31, 2005 9:43 am

Oh man... that's horrible news.

My deepest sympathies to you and your wife.

jimd · Post by **jimd** » Mon Jan 31, 2005 9:47 am

I am so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine how hard this must be for you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Jim D.

matthewk · Post by **matthewk** » Mon Jan 31, 2005 9:47 am

I am so sorry to hear this. I don't really know what to say other than I will be thinking of your family and praying for you. As a father of 2 I can imagine what you and your wife must be feeling. Take care of yourself, and stay in contact with friends and family. I know talking about games seems so trivial, but little things like this board can help you deal with things even if it's as a short diversion.

BTW, I'm at work and just about to cry myself

pk500 · Post by **pk500** » Mon Jan 31, 2005 9:52 am

Lord, have mercy: Rob, I feel for you and your wife beyond words. It's almost impossible to fathom, but try to take solace that your angel is in a better place, and that you will see her again.

Constant prayers and thoughts to you both. I'm really sorry for your loss, man.

Take care,
PK

sportdan30 · Post by **sportdan30** » Mon Jan 31, 2005 10:01 am

I don't even know what to say Rob except that I'm truly truly sorry. Just know your friends on here are extremely supportive and everyone is thinking of you in this tragic time. If there is anything any of us can do, let us know.

Leebo33 · Post by **Leebo33** » Mon Jan 31, 2005 10:01 am

Rob,

I am so saddened by your news. Your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.

Lee

Jason · Post by **Jason** » Mon Jan 31, 2005 10:08 am

Rob,

I'm truly sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.

brendanrfoley · Post by **brendanrfoley** » Mon Jan 31, 2005 10:10 am

Very sad news, indeed.

My thoughts and prayers go out to your family.

ubrakto · Post by **ubrakto** » Mon Jan 31, 2005 10:11 am

I'm very sorry for your loss, Rob, and I deeply hope that your family is able to endure what must be an unimaginably difficult time. Take good care of yourself and your family.
---Todd

Cincinnati_Kid · Post by **Cincinnati_Kid** » Mon Jan 31, 2005 10:12 am

our hearts go out you rob

God Bless